Before You Tie the Knot: A Guide for Couples
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Marriage is a natural developmental stage for most adults but the process of getting married and achieving a successful, long-lasting marriage can be fraught with challenges for Muslims in North America. The authors present a unique approach that reflects 40 years of combined experience in counseling couples. Mohamed Hag Magid is a prominent imam at one of the largest mosques in the US, and Salma Elkadi Abugideiri is a licensed mental health professional. The two provide an Islamic framework for the entire marriage process and present marriage as a partnership while underscoring the ingredients for successfully finding a spouse, as well as for establishing and maintaining a healthy marriage.This book is invaluable for anyone seeking marriage, as well as for parents who are involved in their childrenโs marriage process. Those getting re-married after a divorce or death of a spouse will also find this book extremely useful. The authors raise thought-provoking questions to help readers increase self-awareness, clarify what is desired in a spouse and in a marriage, and help them get to know a potential spouse. Topics addressed in detail include finding a spouse, the role of family and in-laws, the marriage contract and wedding, intimacy, spirituality and finances. Special issues addressed include mental health, domestic violence and threats to a marriage. This marriage guide is surprisingly comprehensive and practical. It provides a tool kit with concrete skills that can be used throughout a marriage to ensure a healthy relationship that is grounded in the Islamic values of love and mercyโqualities that are necessary to achieve the ultimate purpose of marriage: mutual tranquility. This book promises to be a valuable resource that couples will turn to for many years both as a refresher and as a reference. Review: Insightful Read - Purchased this about three years ago and a lot of the content has been great and has benefitted myself and others around me. Easy to read, clearly structured and addresses key issues within couples. Review: Very insightful - Very good book to read for anyone looking to get married. Although tailored heavilly for the US, many chapters are relatable to the UK.
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| Customer Reviews | 4.7 out of 5 stars 172 Reviews |
H**B
Insightful Read
Purchased this about three years ago and a lot of the content has been great and has benefitted myself and others around me. Easy to read, clearly structured and addresses key issues within couples.
M**N
Very insightful
Very good book to read for anyone looking to get married. Although tailored heavilly for the US, many chapters are relatable to the UK.
J**Z
For all couples considering marriage
Lovely book. All couples should read this before considering marriage. It has topics on things you probably wouldn't think of asking a potential spouse. Great read
J**A
Plz before you get married read this book
Very good book with information for us people need to read it.
M**D
A great book to understand what to look for
Brilliant book giving lots of great advice and what to look for and ask. Definitely worth a read!
A**.
Great book with lots of great wisdom
I highly recommend this book for new couples looking to get married or married couples looking to address problems in their marriage. Lots of wisdom and great advice.
N**A
a must read for every family
I recently read the book "Before You Tie the Knot: A Guide for Couples" and I must say, it is an excellent resource for anyone considering marriage or in a serious relationship. This book offers practical advice and insights for couples that can help them navigate the complexities of long-term relationships. One of the things that I appreciated about this book is that it covers a wide range of topics that are essential for any couple to discuss before getting married. From communication and conflict resolution to finances and intimacy, the book offers clear and practical guidance on how to approach these sensitive and often difficult topics. The writing style of the book is engaging and accessible, making it an easy read for anyone. I also appreciated the many real-life examples and anecdotes that the author uses to illustrate his points. These stories help to bring the advice to life and make it feel more relatable. Overall, I would highly recommend "Before You Tie the Knot: A Guide for Couples" to anyone who is considering marriage or in a serious relationship. This book offers valuable insights and practical advice that can help couples build stronger and more fulfilling relationships. Whether you are just starting out or have been together for years, this book is an excellent resource that can help you navigate the challenges of long-term relationships.
M**.
A Must Read!!
Was recommended this book by a friend and I am soooo glad I bought it! It is the perfect resource for understanding how to approach marriage and relationships from an Islamic lens. The examples, different POVs, in-depth explanations...literally every page in the book...is perfect. There are insightful questions included at the end of each chapter which really allow you to understand what you want from a relationship and partner. 100% recommend!
A**R
Extremely practical and realistic book.
I don't remember who recommended this book, maybe some podcast but so far I'm loving this book. It's strength lies in reflection and many a times we feel we are ready for marriage but forget to ask the small but important questions that will occur repeatedly in our day to day lives. Great purchase worth every dollar. Recommended to my friends who are looking to get married !
S**N
Ideal engagement gift
Bought this book as an engagement gift for a friend. I skimmed it before gifting it away and the content was very well laid out and should be helpful for him
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